“My scared voice also asks if it’s truly possible to have a chosen family when, for me at least, almost everyone in it is tied romantically to another, or will be, their sense of family closing in on itself as they couple up and have kids. I feel frustrated with myself for wanting to be someone’s number one. To be their person,” (Key 65).
Amy Key’s debut memoir examines how she spent most of her life imagining a great, romantic love story for herself that by her mid-forties never did unfold. Using Joni Mitchel’s Blue album, Key looks back at her expectations on love, on being single, and how to live a life without romantic love when it is so often seen as the only thing worth living for. Continue reading
